You can have whatever you want….
I do have a caution…. you need to know what YOU want… not what you should want… not what someone else thinks you should want…
And then... you still need to be aware of the difference between a dream and a fantasy…
It goes like this…. a fantasy is something that could be really fun… like becoming a rock star… travelling around the world in a hot air balloon… or sleeping with your best friend’s boyfriend…. It might be fun at the time…. but because it’s not what you truly desire… it’s not going to be fulfilling…. and you miss out on your dream….
(Don’t get me wrong…. for some people becoming a rock star is their life’s purpose!!)
So your dream… how do you find out what that is??... well you ask and then you listen!!… anything that quietens the mental chatter in your mind will help with this… meditation, spending time in nature, a hot bath…
Another way to work out if it’s your dream… does it scare the shit out of you??.... because if it does, you’re on the right track!!
OK, I can here you saying… it’s one thing to have a dream…. but how do I make it come true… how do I get whatever I want!!
7 Steps To Get Whatever You Want
So does this mean you have to decide exactly what you want to do for a career when you’re 16 years old and then never give up??.... well no it doesn’t actually…. big picture dreams like loving relationships…. fulfilling work… happiness…. financial freedom… healthy mind and body… are what you really want to hang on to... the details and the specific ‘hows’ are not so important… changing your mind is allowed… (click here to read my blog about quitting)…
Here’s some examples of how I’ve used this in my life….
Whenever I lose my keys (or anything else!!)… I follow these seven steps… I act ‘as if’ I’ve already found my keys… I don’t panic or stress… I just look around or continue to get my things together and invariably find my keys along the way….
When I have travelled with little or no money…. I’ve always managed to get whatever I want or need… (click here to read my blog on how to achieve this level of financial security!)
In the last 6 months I’ve really amped up my manifesting practice….. I’ve allowed myself to have big dreams including money and possessions…. this isn’t a short term practice like when I need to find my keys!!… this requires persistence… here's some photos of my new home… after years of fun share houses, a shed in the bush, travelling, camping, a tiny studio, and staying with friends… it’s quite momentous!!
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Do you fear they won’t be able to achieve financial security?
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